父母溺爱孩子现象英语

第一篇：父母溺爱孩子现象英语

To love or to spoil

There is no denying that the parents are loving their children, but the way to express the love is different from person to person.From two pictures, the parents provide what the child wants to have at the first time.I think that is not a true love.For many years, the “one couple, one child” policy has been carried out in China and it has proved to be an effective way to control the rapid

growth of the population in our country.The only child becomes the center of the family.Many parents spoil their children and ignore the education which is truly benefit for their children„s growing.when the spoiled children grow up, many of them greatly disappoint their parents.Some of them even commit crimes.Who should be blamed? I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others.Only by correct education, can the children be useful in the future.as is shown/indicated/illustrated by the figure/percentage in the _____ has been on rise/ decrease(goesup/increases/drops/decreases),significantly/dramatically/steadily rising/decreasing from______ in _______ to ______ in _____.From the sharp/marked decline/ rise in the chart, it goes withoutThere are at least two good reasons accounting for ______.On the one hand, ________.On the other hand, _______ is due to the fact that ________.In addition, ________ is responsible for _______.Maybe there are some other reasons to

show ________.But it is generally believed that the above mentioned reasons are commonly convincing.As far as I am concerned,I hold the point of view that _______.I am sure my opinion is both sound and well-grounded.

第二篇：英语作文素材：有关父母溺爱孩子

有关父母溺爱孩子的话题

Parents love their children by nature, where Chinese mothers and fathers are no exceptions.Chinese parents tend to dote on their children because each family is allowed to have only one kid due to birth control.They place too much hope on the treasured child that if he wants the star, they might even climb to pick it.For self-centered, the spoiled children depend on their parents for everything.As a result, once confronted with harsh reality, they are more likely to yield to hardships and difficulties in life.

第三篇：英语四级作文父母对孩子溺爱

Nowadays many parents have a common sense that their children are so precious to them so they always try their best to give their children a happy and meaningful life.Therefore, an increasing number of parents spoil their children and do everything for them, even control their life.For example, many children have to obey their parent' s idea about which school they should go into after they graduating;some children must go to art class like dancing, piano and paint even though they have no interest in them;what' s more, some strict parents even involve children' s freedom about what friends they should make.On one hand, these parents care and protect their children, however, on the other hand they may do harm to their children.As far as I am concerned, in is necessary that parents should give their children more space and freedom so that their children may become more independent.For instance, children could do something they like, so they may be much more active and responsible.What' s more, it is also a good way to let their children study in a boarding school for children must face something by their own, such as, their relationship with friends and student, their study and busy life and so on.A good case in point, parents may encourage their children to take part-time jobs during summer or winter holiday.By doing this, I believe, these children may become more independent, brave and responsible.In summary, spoiling children is no right.Parents should know better that an independent, responsible and brave person is able to adapt society better.

第四篇：孩子不应溺爱

孩子不应溺爱

“爱子乃人之天性”，尤其对独生子女更是如此，爱是一种伟大的感情，它体现着给予。孩子感受到爱的情感时，就会得到精神的满足，从而产生向上的力量。爱又是开启孩子心灵的钥匙。由于孩子感受到父母的爱，在感情上就产生共鸣，在思想上愿意与父母交流，就会把父母当成知心朋友，乐意接受教导，使孩子处于接受教育的最佳状态。此时对孩子的教育就成功。

但爱是有讲究的。现在我们的不少家长对子女的爱确实是过分了，是溺爱，主要表现：

１、舍不得孩子受“委屈”。有的家长对孩子的要求不加分析，百依百顺，有求必应。把自己当成“孺子牛”，即使是家庭经济状况一般，父母宁可节衣缩食，也咬着牙使孩子生活在优裕的物质生活中，使孩子从小要什么有什么，要怎样就怎样，为所欲为地追求物质享受，而难于同情父母的疾苦，珍惜父母的劳动。２、舍不得孩子吃苦，事事包办代劳，从小开始如洗手帕、洗手洗脚、穿衣、戴红领巾、叠被、扫地、洗碗等完全应由孩子自己做的事，父母也包办代劳。稍大了，又要让孩子集中时间学习，家务劳动不让沾边，从而养成懒散、衣来伸手、饭来张口、厌恶劳动、不劳而获，挥霍浪费的纨绔子弟的恶习，难于培养尊重父母劳动，为父母分忧的思想和品德。

３、将子女置于家庭中的至尊地位。有的孩子在家庭中享有特殊待遇，成了特殊人物，其存在价值远远超过其他家庭成员，处于家庭至尊至上核心地位的孩子，自然成为目中无人，为所欲为的“小皇帝”。

４、纵容护短。当子女与他人纠纷，吵架、打架，有的家长不分是非，往往首先责怪对方。有的明知孩子不好，被教师批评了，还埋怨教师，在孩子面前，对教师说三道四。在祖孙三代的家庭中，有的祖辈为袒护孙辈，甚至在孩子面前训斥孩子的父母，这些都影响孩子认识和改正自己的错误，助长了他们的恶习。５、物质刺激。有的家长用钱物鼓励孩子听话，学习和做事。考试成绩好就给钱给物，容易使孩子把钱物作为学习和做事的动力，同时也容易养成随便花钱

和要东西的不良习惯。

６、有的家长只尽心尽力对子女尽“责”，而不要求孩子对父母、对家庭负责，使孩子无需付出任何代价就可轻易得到自己想要的东西。将使孩子缺乏负责感，只想索取，不想奉献。只要别人为自己服务，自己不愿意为别人服务。

第五篇：爷爷奶奶溺爱孩子咋办

爷爷奶奶溺爱孩子咋办？

在我们家中，由于我和孩子爸爸都是上班族，时间、精力不够，孩子平时就由我的父母帮着照顾着。爷爷、奶奶和父母是两代人，除了在年龄上有较大的差异外，思想、爱好、生活习惯等，都存在很大差距。再加上年轻的父母由于现在社会竞争激烈，生存压力增大，总会不自觉地把紧张气氛带入家庭，希望孩子也能早早地适应社会、适应竞争。而相对于退休在家，拥有相对平和的心态的爷爷奶奶们，他们则更多的希望孩子能拥有轻松快乐的童年。爷爷奶奶爱孩子是无可厚非的，但爱要有个度，过分的宠爱就成了溺爱。所以，在理解和肯定对方的基础上，我觉得父母和爷爷奶奶还应在以下几点保持一致。

1.不偏袒孩子，不娇惯孩子 在孩子做错事情时，全家的态度必须保持一致，不能偏袒孩子，娇惯孩子。孩子是很会察言观色，当他看到家庭成员之间出现分歧时，他就会聪明地钻空子。这不仅对改善他的行为毫无益处，反而会导致他的问题越来越严重，甚至带来更多别的问题。

2.孩子能做的事，绝不代劳

事事都为孩子代劳，久而久之，会打消孩子做事的积极性。孩子做些力所能及的事，会让他感觉自己被承认。一些最基本的生活自理能力在今后的生活中是无人能替他代劳一辈子的，所以在日常生活中，培养孩子自我服务能力和劳动习惯是非常重要的。

3.不能无条件满足孩子的每一个要求

我们应学会拒绝孩子的无理要求。当他知道撒娇和无礼取闹没意义时，就不会再这么做了，不要让孩子养成无理取闹和撒娇的习惯。如果孩子想得到某件玩具，并且要求不是很过分时，可让孩子付出一定的努力再满足他，比如，让他打扫卫生“挣”钱。如果他长期轻而易举地就能得到自己想要的，他将不会懂得珍惜和来之不易。

孩子任性也好，有某些不良行为也好，虽然与老人的溺爱、娇惯有关，但父母首先看到的应是自己未尽教子责任的一面，世间没有任何人能替代父母对孩子的教育。所以，父母应尽最大努力和老人沟通，说服老人在育儿中和自己保持一致，只要大人之间态度一致，孩子一定会往好的方向发展。

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