第一篇:罗密欧与朱丽叶的爱情与现代爱情的对比
A COMPARISON BETWEEN LOVE OF ROMEO AND JULIET AND MODERN LOVE
by Zou Shan
May, 202_
Hubei Engineering University
Abstract
Romeo and Juliet is one of great playwright Shakespear’s famous palys.In this story, Shakespear showed us what is true love on the earth.Love between Remeo and Juliet is pure and noble, their courage of willing to sacrifice for love moves and encourages generation to generation.Love is one of the finest affecions of our human being, it’s a miraculous element that makes people happy and sad.Everyone has the freedom of love, and everyone has the right to have the taste of it.The so-called love must have romantic factors and pure spirit.And most importantly, it must be without any purpose ,purity and no impurity.However , this is indeed what our mordern people lack of and is the most moving part.This thesis stand at the point of the love between Romeo and Juliet to deeply analysis the background of the tragedy, and comparied with modern love ,to find out their similarities and differences, thus to study what is love and what kind of love is true love.Furthermore, on the basis of this elaborating the essence of love, connotation and meaning of love education among college students.Key words:Romeo and Juliet;modern love;similarities;differences
罗密欧与朱丽叶的爱情和现代爱情的对比
摘 要
《罗密欧与朱丽叶》是伟大的戏剧家莎士比亚流传最广的戏剧之一。在这部作品中,莎士比亚向人们展示了什么才是真正的爱情。罗密欧与朱丽叶之间的爱情纯洁而高尚。他们为爱而甘愿做出牺牲的勇气感动和鼓舞着一代又一代人。爱情是人世间最美好的情感之一,是世人为之欣喜为之忧的奇妙情愫。每一个人都有恋爱的自由,都有品尝爱情滋味的权利。而所谓爱情,就是一定要有浪漫的情愫,肤身的精神。更重要的是,不带任何目的,纯粹而无杂质。然而这正是我们现代人所缺少的,也正是最打动人心的地方。本文则通过前人已有的研究成果对罗密欧与朱丽叶的爱情进行深入分析和总结,深入探析这一爱情悲剧的背景,并且将其与现代爱情做对比,探讨其中的相似性和差异性,看看到底什么是爱情,什么样的爱情才是真正的爱情,并在此基础上阐述了爱情的实质和大学生爱情教育的内涵及意义。
关键词:《罗密欧与朱丽叶》;现代爱情;相似性;差异性;
Contents
1.Definition of love...................................................................................1 2.Love of Romeo and Juliet.....................................................................2 3.A summary of modern love..................................................................4 4.A comparison between Remeo and Juliet’s love and modern love..5 4.1 Similarities......................................................................................5 4.2 Differences......................................................................................7 4.2.1 Different backgrounds...........................................................7 4.2.2Different aims.........................................................................8 4.2.3 Different endings.................................................................10 5.Conclusion...........................................................................................10 Bibliography............................................................................................13
1.Definition of love Love, for thousands of years, always being regarded as a symbol of holy and purity.Love is great, it embodies a higher state of mental life;love is pure, it can not be tolerate anything false and turbidly;besides , love is mysterious, which makes a great number of men and women addicted ,and even pay their life.Love is one of the eternal themes of people’s social life.Ever since there’s human being, there’s self-consciousness of people, affection world, and love is concluded in the rich world.Love is an important field of people’s moral life, and also an important content of everybody’s life road.It is not only related to the happiness of real life, but also reflects the civilization degree of society and the standard of social morality.All along history, people always look forward to love, create love, and write poem to eulogize love.There is a poem about love, “What is love? How lucky he is whoever understands it … What can love do? I know, I will die for it.” Maybe there is no need to die for love, but what is love after all? How many people understand it? Thousands of years ago, an ancient philosopher Socrates, had ever put forward a question—what is love? And answered with famous words of a love teacher, which is love is neither an immortal matter nor mortal thing, but exists between the two, it is a great elf, and just all kinds of elf, love are an agent between soul and earthling.”
Thousands of years later, contemporary philosopher Roland·Batt still emphasis in Lover’s Words that “I really really want to know what love is on earth.”
From my understanding of love, it is a feeling of falling in love and hearts correspond, an impulse of a unity of two person.It is a spontaneous passion.Once the passion deduce, talking about it is something of mist, for that love either is the incarnation, or is nothing.And when passion love comes into being, the lovely points of the loved one are exaggerated, so that the same person are definitely different between the eyes of loved and no loved one.Thus can Burst express the opinion again and again that all people who fall in love love not a real person but one imaged in their own hearts, their sense themselves.When love someone, honesty is needed.Only two honest hearts can link together.When all of you done in love come from honesty, the half one can touch them deeply, and know your heart from it, because honesty is the foundation of love.When love someone, lenience is needed.As one love begins, the two should learn how to run it, your love will be happy if you can do it well, or it will take great number of consequence.Lenience is always needed in love, there are some kinds of friction when getting along with each other, if you don’t have a lenient heart, and I think it sad.When love someone, frankness is needed.Two frank hearts can make we know each other.Be frank, a suspicion is deduced, but a trust increasing.When love someone, responsibility is needed.Maybe responsibility gives us a feeling of hard, but it is indispensable in love.Lovers should know clearly about responsibility, and shouldn’t heart the other side without the basic of love.In true love, the whole heart should be put, so do specialty and fair.To move you’re beloved by real heart, thus, a real, good, beautiful love story can be written.2.Love of Romeo and Juliet
Romeo and Juliet is a famous tragic love story of Shakespeare's early work.It depicts the story of a pair of couples man and woman to be dismantled and then both sentimental.The story took place in Verona City—an attractive little city in the north of Italy.At that time there were two prominent families—the Capulet family, who the support of the Holy Roman Emperor, and the Montague family, who respected the Pope.The factions struggle made the two mutually hostile, implacable, and developed grievances deep feud.However, all of this can not stop the pace of love, the beautiful and passionate Capulet’s daughter Juliet and handsome dashing Montague’ son Romeo fell in love at their first sight, they ignored the family's objections and got married, the wedding was held under the auspices of the kindly priest Lawrence.Happiness is always short, Romeo was driven out of the city by his family, Juliet's father forced her to marry an Earl, she did not dare to go against the family, and even she did not want to betray her lover.Priest Lawrence helped her again, so she swallowed sleeping pills as feign death in order to procrastinate time.Believed that Juliet was died, the whole Capulet family made a funeral for her sadly.Romeo was just in the back to the city, being in a misery of the truth, he was so sorrowful that he drank poison and fell down on the side of Juliet.So surprised Juliet was, when regained consciousness seeing that her love was just on her side.But at the time Romeo told her that he was dying, Juliet was heartbroken and could not bear to live alone, she decided to end her own life by Romeo’s dagger without any hesitation, the two embrace love ascended to heaven.The great sorrow awakened two hostile families;the blood didn’t flow in vain for their loved ones, the two finally reconciled.John·Hances had ever wrote in the prologue of Romeo and Juliet, “Romeo and Juliet is a love tragedy of young people, no play can embody the fierce and ideal passion of young people as it.The readers being addicted to love can find out the most ideal verse to express their mood in the play, and hope those who don’t love deeply can be as the former after reading.This universal desire of love and organic combination of self-devoting spirit and desire of love can express themselves perfectly in this playwright.” And this is the great mental heritage that Romeo and Juliet leaves to us, and will nourish our human beings’ soul continuously.Although Romeo born in a great feudal family, he didn’t inherit the feudal traditional thought, yet he complied with the trend of age, betrayed his feudal family and became a unswerved humanistic people;he was honest, brave, educational, capable, he had a firm heart of universal love;he persuade a autonomous, free and wonderful love life.Even though he loves the enemy’s daughter, he never cowered.He didn’t have the prejudice of family status, once he loved Juliet, he regarded Couplets as his own family, and hoped to untie the old grudge all heart;he was loyal to love, and willing to be exiled to other place for love and lover, even to end his own life.Juliet was a 13-year-old noble young lade, but she was brave, strong, wisdom.Breaking heavy restrict of great family, she darling fall in love with Romeo and entrust her life to love.Knowing there’s no hope after Romeo’s exile, she refused to marry noble young Pales.With her wisdom, she lied to her father many times, and took sleeping pills at the sake of life;all of these were for realizing ideal love.She regarded love as important as life, at the death of Romeo;she also ended her precious life.3.A summary of modern love Modern love likes the flexible and unpredicted clouds, which makes people more and more confused.Modern love is composed of flowers.Offering a bunch of flower is to offer a love, until now, the greatest love belongs to the one who own 999 roses, and that kind of love is amazing.The flower shop becomes the monopolization of young people to sell love, the love desire of young people expands rapidly, and flower shops grow up like the bamboo after the spring rain, which sell the most majestic affection of human beings and in the mean time take back the most valuable money.The rich people buy flowers and buy love at the same time, however ugly the buyer is, beautiful girls can only see the beautiful of the flowers and ignore other things.Rich people can buy different flowers for different girls, and take back different taste of love.Thom poor one who can not afford flowers cannot hope love, but to make plans when hoard enough money.Maybe there’s an important problem is ignored by people, which is the flowers in flower shops have been cut the roots, they have no origin, they are dead ones.Why those people who are eager for love can’t realize the difference? What does flower stand for? For money? For affection? For honesty? Or for anything else?
Modern love has become a lightning war.Know at the first day, embrace at the second day, mix at the third day.The painting of Managua makes people slap the table and shout with praise, which is both bride and bridegroom wearing beautiful full dress stepped into the wedding room, “what’s your name?” the bride asked her husband suddenly.What a good question it is—this is the romantic point of modern love.The other side of the lightning speed love combination is the rapid disintegration of it.Even an anger, a rumor, an affair, an ignorance, a friction can break love into pieces, weak as glass.Modern love has become pop music.How moved it is when being sung, “I cannot be without you, I cannot live without you.” In fact, this kind of songs can be sung to anybody.Modern young people’s oath just like the pop music, believe it or not, it just is there.One day you watched couple on the TV(as Yao Chen and Lin Xiaosu), but the second day they porced, all of your envy turn into misery.Can you understand love? Can you explain what love is? Can love still be explained with immortal? Betrayal has become the new theme of modern.Modern love sweeps the third person into the dustbin of history, thus lover being a romantic word.The lover in people’s eyes is the real point of love, but the most obstacle of family.Some knowledge people suggest canceling family to get back to nature, and there’s no need to conceal when lover appears, instead, it can be the capital to show.Inexpertly, they seem finding out the truth of love—there’s no true love in the world at all, but only the mutual attraction between men and women existing.Does the tradition love step into error path? Or modern love lost its way?
4.A comparison between Romeo and Juliet’s love and modern love 4.1 Similarities There are a lot of patterns when love occurs, but no one can be compared with falling in love at the first sight.It is a characteristic of love.The meet of Romeo and Juliet begins their amazing and mysterious love.At the first sight of Juliet, Romeo was astonished, “O, she doth teach the torches to burn bright.Juliet is the sun rising in the east.The brightness of her cheek would shame those stars.As day-light doth a lamp.” Just before, he was in a gloomy of his single pine love, but now he signed, “My love before is fake but not true, and tonight I meet the one.” And Juliet’s response was more immediate, “if he has married, tomb is my wedding bed.” Seeing the two falls in love, I can nearly feel their passion.According to data in 202_ Valentine’s Day survey, the romantic affection as Romeo and Juliet’s meeting unexpectedly and being with each other at family party was liked by most Italy lovers.Besides as a latest survey shows the rate of first sight love of Chinese reaches up to 66%.Which is to suggest, that most love, both in ancient time and in modern world, are spontaneous, they are all come from the first impression.When two hot eyes meet each other, there must be some new fantastic story.Especially when someone is at the low mood, or he(or she)is just break up with some guy, the first sight of love is more easily take place.As you know, people in love, like Romeo and Juliet, their mind are always simple;they can do everything for his(or her)love, even at the price of life.And they do everything is to get more love from the beloved one, to get closer to his(or her)heart.Their aim is pure.The essence of love is nature.As a notion of ancient Greece philosopher Plato, love is only related to psyche, it is absolutely reject to sex desire, they have no relation at all, it’s a psychological support of men and women, it melt all the affection in the solicitude of the beloved one.And Plato insists, mankind have two kinds of fertility, which is body fertility and internal spirit fertility.The former is the capability of continuing later generation.But the two gender love depend on flesh is not true love at all, only the internal spirit fertility can be called true love.On the whole, whenever in Romeo and Juliet’s love or in modern, the origins are the same—both for pure love, a simple internal spirit affection.Moreover, Romeo and Juliet witness the essence—love is love.And in my point of view, when the two fell in love, Romeo was 16,but Juliet just 13,as all for pure love, their minds are not mature enough, they don’t know what true is, all of their behavior originate from an impulse of their deep heart.In fact, it is an instinct of animal, and is a hidden consciousness.Which is that you will compare your mate to the one in your imagination, and mostly from appearance and temperament, the closer to your standard, the more attention you will pay.4.2 Differences 4.2.1 Different backgrounds
The love story of Romeo and Juliet was written in 1590s.In 16th century, British were underpaying Renaissance, humanism train of thought dominated in social cultural trains.Humanism seeked for human liberation, upheld inpidual freedom, Romeo and Juliet seek for freedom of love just at the price of lives.At that time, England was a Christian country;the reigning monarch of England was Queen Elizabeth I.All children were baptized, soon after they were born, into the Church of England;they were taught the essentials of the Christian faith, and instructed in their duty to God and to humankind.Marriages were performed, and funerals conducted, only by the licensed clergy and in accordance with the Church’s rites and ceremonies.Attendance at pine service was compulsory;absences could be punished by fines.By such means, the authorities were able to keep some check on the populace—recording births, marriages, and deaths, being alert to any religious nonconformity, which could be politically dangerous;and ensuring a minimum of orthodox instruction through the official “Homilies” which were regularly preached from the pulpits of all parish churches throughout the realm.Following Henry VIII’s break away from the Church of Rome, all people in England were able to hear the church services in their own language.The Book of Common Prayer was used in every church, and an English translation of the Bible was read aloud in public.The Christian religion had never been so well taught before!However, stepping into 21st century, science and culture have entered a high speed era.House price, stock market, commodity price and too many realities perplex our modern people.Love, a mankind affection, which has always been talked about and the most frequency word in discussion, is bond with more and more real conditions.With the liberation of the society, people’s minds also keep the pace.They pay they love not only to get love but to get more realities.Thus people pay more attention to what they can get from love, money? Power? Or status? Because they believe, in this materialistic world, it’s difficult to handle things without money and money;even it’s difficult to live in this world without them.And the new century gives more new styles of love.In modern society, people who know love as “the more you give, the richer I will be” like Juliet is rare.What modern people want most is how to exchange through affection.Love has already become the bargaining chip of someone, which can be only paid for get to the aim.It is difficult to find pure love in this materialistic world.A recent survey has already told us clearly people’s attitude toward love and bread(material).Li Tong says, “You are not going to die without love;you are not going to live without bread.That this is the case, love is a kind of luxury good, bread is necessity.Which do you want, luxury good or necessity?” Guan Shanshi says, “Who can promise that love can be depend on for lifetime in this desire metropolis? Maybe love will let your affection down, but bread will never let your stomach down!” “With the acceleration of urbanization, more and more young people drift in strange cities.To us, love is far away, but bread is necessary.”
I think it’s not the young people themselves willing to change their attitude toward love, but the modern world compel them to, and all they hunt for is to keep pace with the world and never be eliminated.For that, in their mind, reality is cruel.4.2.2Different aims
At the age of Romeo and Juliet, all love and marriage were restricted by their families, and what their family seek for is “social position and economic status be in harmony”.However deep their children love each other, they would take every price to part them despite any conflict.Thus the reverse psychology was more serious among young people, and they were more eager for true love.Therefore their aim in love is single—just for love—a real feeling of affection.Classic love notion think, love should immortal;but modern love notion think, only seek for owning ever, but not care about immortal.Many young people in love game they play with heart-beat.Modern people may encounter with love anytime, however, chances can be chosen are too many, they will face with new challenge continuously.But in this modern world, everything has changed.Young people has become a bargaining chip of their own or their family, what they want most is how to make use of the valuable bargaining chip to get them more money, to enter into a higher status and to consolidate their foundation.This kind of love is very rational, realistic.For example, some single girls who just step out of the campus, may don’t have a good plan for their future, all they know is how to dress up beautifully to attract the eyeball of heterosexual.But as you know, they just come to the society;they don’t have enough money to make up themselves.Thus they think of their beauty, it’s the most valuable capital of them, they should make full use of it.They open their eyes as big as possible for their ideal “lover”, and never miss any chance, they hunt for fortune, despite of age, and they even willing to be a fling, because they enjoy the life surrounding by money, money makes them a feeling of safety.And some young people, especially who are in the campus, they really don’t know what love is.They regard love as a game, which they will never put all their heart, but only hope to win the game.Maybe they have a love affair with someone just to prove themselves and to show their ability.They have the ability to compete with others;they have the ability to win girl’s sweet heart.At the same time, some girls who have a love affair with some boy, maybe for the reason that she loves him, but to keep up with the trend—other girls already have boyfriend, they want to enjoy the feeling of company and being spoiled.Love is great;it’s a two-edged sword, which can change a person into a bright side, and a dark side.Some lovers live together, for that they love each other, however, other people live together just for sex, their love is just a partner.They purely love for sex, and being into the college, they can allocate their time freely, thus many students are eager to have a taste of the forbidden fruit.However, they lack of self-control, they always feel lonesome and emptiness, then they begins to look for love, to look for love for sex.4.2.3 Different endings
Not everything will develop as expectation, neither will love.Romeo and Juliet yearned for true love, they sacrificed their lives, but what did they get in the end? And this is the point they leave us to considerate.They end their lives for love, but love returns them nothing.“Love” is the core of social tragedy;they can’t get rid of the charge of fate which ties the two as an invisible rope.But with society changing, people’s material life improved, and mental life get rich, the yearn and pursuit for love have gradually become a trend of age, love has become the basic condition moral cornerstone of marriage, love has become an indispensable foundation of their relation.Modern people don’t love for love, so their endings are different from Romeo and Juliet’s love.With different intention, their endings are different.Those who regard love as a game, they are mocked by the game in the end, they part.Those who regard love as bargaining chip for money or status, maybe they win in the end, but they lost the chance of loving or being loved by others in the game of love;however if they are defeated, can they become enemy only, for that no one want their love ship is at the basic of interest conflict.Those who love for sex will be punished by their behavior;their “love” must leave sometime, and will never come back.Those who ever put all their heart to love someone, they may go through all the travels, then step into the paradise of marriage and enjoy a different form of love;maybe thanks to some reasons they separate in the end, but they can still be good friend, because they’ve ever be together, they know each other well.Besides, to all conditions, rational people will never end their lives for love, all of them have a faith in their deep mind—life is given by parents, it’s precious and should be cherished.5.Conclusion Love is mysterious, and life is precious.We should treat life properly, we should cherish it, and then how should we treat love? Firstly, we should advocate common objective love.When beginning a love, we should put same thoughts, same faith and pursuit at the first place, and set beautiful soul, noble mortality as the first standard of selecting a date.Shakespeare had ever said, “love is not the sweet word under tree shadow, not the honey talk in Cockaigne, not slight tear, and not stubborn compel, but the soul communication that builds on the basic of common pursuit.” So at the selecting of date, the most indispensible condition should be the general consistence of common objective love, thoughts, ideals and life interest.Thus out college students as the ridgepole of the new era, their love notion should be the organic combination of ideals, morality and duty.Secondly, we should learn to handle the relationship between love and undertaking, money, and status.Love is great, it’s an important part of life, but not the whole of life, and it should obey and promote undertaking.We should correct our attitude toward love.Only our undertaking success, can the flower of love be more bright-colored.So college students should put undertaking at the first place, correct the relationship between love and undertaking, and not spend all precious time on love but loose to learn.Love without undertaking is as sowing seed in the desert, it will wither sooner or later.Merely the combination of them, love can be vigorous.Then, we should know that love means duty and contribution.College students should know that love is not only to gain, but to pay, to take the responsibility.In our social life, there are two types of duty, one is to society, and the other is to family, parents, children, and mate.The latter belongs to private life;it’s the weakest field that the society can interfere, which depends on well-morality and sense of duty.For that reason, once college students enter love kingdom, they can win noble love with fierce sense of duty and spirit of contribution.Furthermore, we should be serious, earnest and intent to affection.Love is a relation that male and female adore each other, including special affection and obligatory, which exist between the two, and never accept the third one.And love is not game;both sides should treat each other honestly.Countless facts prove that cheating love is not happy.In addition, once the two build love connection, they should be intent, loyal and dependable, and should not careless, or it’s immoral.And no love built on the basic of sex is accepted.Last but not least, we should learn to understand, believe, and respect each other in love.We should have independent personality and mental world;neither depends on the other one absolutely, nor occupies the other side completely.Love is as behaving, understanding, believe, honesty and lenience are very commendable qualities.After all “there’s no perfect man in the world”.Bibliography Romeo and Juliet.Cambridge University Press, 1946.The Riverside Shakespeare.Boston:Houghton Mifflin Company,1974.William Shakespeare,The Complete Works, New York:The VikingPress, 1975.弗洛姆.爱的艺术[M].北京:商务印书馆, 1987, 17.黄宜亮.社会主义义利观———面向21世纪的价值选择[M].郑州:河南人民出版社,202_.今道友信.关于爱[M].北京:三联书店,1987.李建平,罪恶论———道德价值的逆向研究[M].辽宁人民出版社,1996,(1).李培超.论道德冲突[D].长沙:湖南师范大学,1994.欧阳周,汪振华.爱情美学[M].长沙:中南工业大学出版社,1999.莎士比亚.新莎士比亚全集[C].方平译.石家庄:河北教育出版社,202_.莎士比亚.罗密欧与朱丽叶[M].朱生豪,译.北京:中国对外经济贸易出版社, 202_.斯密.道德情操论[M].北京:商务印书馆, 1997, 34 孙家.莎士比亚与现代西方戏剧[M].成都:四川教育出版社,1994,34-35.瓦西列夫.情爱论[M].北京:三联书店,1984.西美尔.柏拉图式的爱欲与现代的爱欲[C]∥刘小枫.人类困境中的审美精神.上海:东方出版社中心,1994.杨岚.人类情感论[M].天津:百花文艺出版社,202_,131.杨雄等.社会转型与青年发展[M].上海:上海社会科学院出版社,202_.英尔顿·亨特.情爱自然史[M].赵跃,李建光译.北京:作家出版社,1988,186.朱于新,余秋阳.对罗密欧与朱丽叶的解读[J].青海师专学报:教育科学,202_,(6).
第二篇:古代爱情与现代爱情
课题名称 古代爱情与现代爱情的区别
指导老师: 课题组长:郑凯健
课题组成员:余凤易、王嘉钰、刘鑫宇、李子潇 正文 【内容摘要】
爱情是一个古老的话题而又现代的话题,爱情的出现在中国古代的奴隶社会时期,文字叙述比较早的也就是《诗经,关雎》“关关雎鸠,在河之洲。窈窕淑女,君子好逑。参差荇菜,左右流之。窈窕淑女,寤寐求之。求之不得,寤寐思服。悠哉悠哉。辗转反侧。参差荇菜,左右采之。窈窕淑女,琴瑟友之。参差荇菜,左右毛之。窈窕淑女。钟鼓乐之。”这是中国典籍当中最早的有关男女爱情的描写,距近大概有几千年了,所以我说爱情是古老的。在当代社会,爱情仍然被世人所追求,而且追求的欲望和质量比古代更高而且爱情在当代中国不断的被世人所赞颂,从中国现代社会的爱情发展来看,爱情还是一个比较年轻的话题。
【关键词】爱情观、社会背景、文化、纳兰容若的诗词、安意如
一、研究背景
爱情是人类最美好的感情,没有之一。美好的爱情让人向往,不幸的爱情又让人唏嘘不已。从古至今,人们的爱情随着社会背景、文化不断发生着变化。
二、研究目的及意义
1、现代爱情有哪些特点
2、古代爱情有哪些特点
3、了解古典诗词中的爱情
三、研究计划制定
(一)研究阶段
第一阶段:组内讨论,探讨课题,计划分工。负责人: 第二阶段:实行计划,设计问卷,发放问卷。负责人: 第三阶段:资料汇总,撰写报告。负责人:(二)研究假设
我们仔细分析目前手中的资料,为使目标更为明确,提出以下假设。
1、古代的爱情值得我们学习吗?
2、现在的爱情真的是一次奢侈的快餐吗?
3、古典诗词中的爱情
4、现代爱情好还是古代爱情好
四、研究过程
第一阶段: 时间:202_.5.6 任务:全体组员进行讨论,探讨课题。第二阶段: 时间:202_.5.6 任务:查找资料 第三阶段: 时间:202_.5.7 任务:王嘉钰同学汇总资料并整理 第四阶段: 时间:202_.5.9 任务:郑凯健同学完成研究报告,总结课题
五、研究成果
()注意:研究假设了几个问题就用大量的数据资料论证几个问题,而不是只写个标题,这是结题报告的重中之重)
1、渊源流传的古代爱情让人神往,朗朗上口,随便就能说出一二。司马相如与卓文君;一代才女李清照和宰相之子赵明诚,虽然他们的婚姻是封建条件下的“父母之命、媒妁之言”,但是他们经过婚后的相互了解、沟通,使婚后的生活幸福甜蜜、情投意合。
2、现在人生活的节奏很快,无暇顾及太多的情调、浪漫,过着规矩但不规范的生活。现代人怀疑爱情。人的物质条件优越了,自由了,但自身却变得脆弱了,关心自己胜过关心他人。如三毛。三毛在爱情上是个理想者,敢于爱的轰轰烈烈,初恋失败就曾想过自杀;她与荷西结婚后就随他住进沙漠,两个人心心相印,朝朝暮暮,所以荷西死后三毛便不能解脱,说:“他等了我6年,爱恋了我12年,诀别时没有跟我说一声再见,我所有的感情都随荷西而去了”;
3、说班婕妤应以《怨歌行》开篇,说杨贵妃更应该拿《长恨歌》来作题,可是不,有了纳兰容若的一句“人生若只如初见”,一切有了开始存在的理由。
其实这一阕词着实平淡,但这一句又实在叫人哑然。
“何事西风悲画扇”,讲的是汉成帝妃班婕妤,史书上著名的幽雅贤德的女子,名门闺秀。成帝初年入宫,因美而贤,深获殊宠。一次,成帝想与她同辇出游,她言道:“贤圣之君皆有名臣在侧,三代末主乃有嬖女。”退而不敢奉诏。
那是君王爱恋正浓的时候,因赞她贤,后宫亦逢迎她,传为美谈,仿佛她是那楚庄王的樊姬,李世民的长孙贤后。她也自得,以为深承君恩,又不没家训,如此地相得益彰。许皇后愚钝,她是不动声色宠冠六宫的人,这样好的日子哪里找去?只愿恩爱长久,如宫名长信。
可是,有一天,她来了!她带着她的妹妹合德一起来了。飞燕入汉宫,是她寂寞的开始。一切,是那么地出乎意料。所有的怜爱,宠幸,都随着那身轻如燕的舞女入宫,戛然而止。
山盟虽在情已成空。
人世如此翻云覆雨,似纳兰说的:“等闲变却故人心,却道故人心易变。”也似刘禹锡的《竹叶词》:“长恨人心不如水,等闲平地起波澜。”
爱情的美丽就在于它真的可以像纳兰写的那样“人生若只如初见,何事秋风悲画扇。”当往事的尘烟,已随风倾泻到泛黄的岁月中的时候,世上唯有爱情会成为那朵梦绘的花,永不凋谢的在一旁默默的散发着芳香,任凭世上的风吹雨打,任凭痴心人的相思泪下,一切却只是停留在最初的那次相遇,只是停留在伊人第一次为你一笑倾城的瞬间。没有悲哀的秋风,没有尘世的喧嚣,只有一段最最纯真的美好。
当爱情的故事从盛唐吹拂到清帝国的时候,当白居易“在天愿作比翼鸟,在地愿为连理枝。天长地久有时尽,此恨绵绵无绝期。”的呼唤化作了纳兰的一声轻叹的时候,当王朝的更迭伴着清脆的马蹄声的时候,只有一种声音还未曾改变过。那就是诗人们为爱情歌唱着的咏叹调。
4、现代爱情追求的是自由,人们可以自己选择心怡的对象。然而在现代爱情中,我们太容易爱上一个人,也太容易恨一个人。我们在快速的生活节奏当中失去了自我,太过于看中外表和物质,忽略了两个人是否真的合适。例如现代爱情中的相亲,两个人上一秒还是陌生人,一顿饭后便要相濡以沫走完一生,这样的盲目草率,不一定会有好的结局。再者由于现代爱情恋爱自由,我们总是会在正确的时间遇到错误的人,或者在错误的时间遇见正确的人。反观古代爱情,许多人的爱情在家族联姻中,变成了家族利益的牺牲品。但那时爱情我觉得大多数的还是很纯朴的,没有世俗的干扰,爱上一个人之后便会此生不渝,那种对爱情的忠贞不渝,是我们现在所无法比拟的。古代爱情与现代爱情各有利弊,孰好孰坏,也要因人而异。
六、反思与体会
爱情是伟大的,是值得尊重的,我们作为高中生,应当以学业为重,但是这并不妨碍正常的友情发展。对于这次研究性学习,本小组成员都有很大的收获,对于古典诗词也有了比较深的认识,而且最重要的是,大家都知道了在高中阶段学业是最重要的,对于爱情也有了正确的认识和理解。这对于大家的成长是很有帮助。
此次的研究性学习基本达到了最初的目的和既定目标,本组的所有成员也都有较大的收获和进步。
七、附件
调 查 问 卷
八、参考文献
安意如的《人生若只如初见》
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第三篇:关于现代爱情诗歌[推荐]
诗歌是一种抒情言志的文学体裁。以下是小编整理的关于现代爱情诗歌大全,欢迎阅读参考。
1、《爱情是什么》
爱情是月亮
相聚时是月满
离别时是月残
爱情是花朵
有你时就盛开
无你时就凋零
爱情是变脸师
融洽时情意绵绵
吵架时牙关痒痒
爱情是橡皮糖
沉睡时潜入梦中
醒来时驻扎心里
爱情是毒酒
捧起时要用心
放手时要用命
爱情是海市蜃楼
远看时流光溢彩
近看时子虚乌无
2、《爱情是个沧桑的神话》
曾经年少爱幻想,两情相悦情意长。
冬去春来人不见,世俗人心恨悠长。
曾经年少亦轻狂,左冲右撞无所靠。
历尽沧桑人间事,宁静致远心意怅。
莫道爱情太辛苦,天赐人愿亦牵强。
脚踏土地听心声,欢爱沧桑是神话。
3、《原来爱情徒有虚名》
突如其来又走得最快的是爱情
风一样拂过你略带微笑的倦容
被酒红的夕阳染醉了般
踉跄的飞鸟、变幻又沉淀的云层
远山如剪的风景却岿然不动
你的眼睛只朦胧
不期待被一个陌生人读懂
有时,爱情徒有虚名
来的火热的标榜着爱情
走的从容的顺从着心情
都不如一场阳光里的旅行
都不如音乐里传唱不息的伤情
这一个黑夜过去
下一段爱情在哪里痴等
只是这漫长的过程里的心痛
一次次提醒
原来爱情,徒有虚名
4、《天与地的爱情》
天堂的你
是我的新郎
地上的我是你的新娘
天与地之间
呼吸着我们爱情的空气
不管我是在南方
你是在北方
万川是我们缠绵悱恻的言语
千林是我们孤独静谧的温床
信鸽送去爱情的红笺
天堂的你哀嚎哭泣
化成柔柔细雨滴落在我的心坎
和风送来婚礼的见证
地上的我欣悦而泣
以白云为戒指晚霞为嫁衣
天堂的你投进我的怀抱里
地上的我依偎在你的臂弯里
天与地举办了一场爱情的盛宴
我以为
天堂的你离我很远
是天堂与大地的距离
当孤独生出一朵花
我发现
地上的我离你很近
是吸气与呼气的距离
蓝蓝天作锦衿
青青山为枕头
你与我共眠
天堂的你地上的我这天与地的爱情
5、《爱情玫瑰花》
散发着醉人的浓香
却还隔着深深的栅栏
世间无上的美丽
却还带着扎手的尖刺
多少生命为她凋零
你这掌管宇宙的女神
多少梦想为她点燃
你这主宰万物的魔鬼
毁灭与重生
未来和过去
都逃不过你的手心
你颠覆着善与恶美和丑
你演绎着人世鼓吹着奋进
你将最美好的撕毁
爱,可以忘记一切
恨,可以消灭一切
玫瑰散发着醉人的浓香
我种下一棵火热的爱情
看她生根发芽开花
玫瑰虽美,却还有凋谢的时候
6、《路灯下的爱情故事》
路灯下
我们相约的地点
匆匆忙忙我来的晚
你倚着路灯杆
头顶着光环天使一般
没有埋怨
你说,你知道我会来
只是早一点晚一点
我摘下劳保手套塞进后口袋
用手抚摸你的脸
你翘着嘴躲闪
笑着说,你的手有点扎,有点烦
路灯,也笑的一眨一眨眼
并肩走
拉起我的手
你说,粗糙但温暖
洒下了一路的甜
每天下班重复每一天
等待爱,绽放的那一天
路灯下
我们相约的地点
匆匆忙忙我来得晚
没有看见你
失去光环
孤独独的路灯
站在夜的黑暗
我对自己说,我知道你会来
只是早一点晚一点
远处的路灯亮的刺眼
但,那不是我们相约的地点
飞驰的汽车
掀起黑夜拉长的身影
空中飞落
如同断线的风筝
车停在我的跟前
你说,隔着玻璃看
看不清你的脸
我看的清你已是泪流满面
没有选择
没有埋怨
车走的不突然
我的泪,却突然
如闸水倾翻
把蜡烛挂上路灯杆
荧荧的火苗
照耀着我从工地
推来砖、水泥、钢筋、模板
我要在路灯下
建一座城堡
只能容下两个人的城堡
我住在里面
等待等待
等待,有人敲门的那一天
7、《爱情是什么》
爱情是什么
爱情是处女地
需要你辛勤劳作
爱情是什么
爱情是一粒种子
需要你细细播种
爱情是什么
爱情是一株幼苗
需要你精心浇泽
爱情是什么
爱情是鲜花一朵
需要你百般呵护
爱情是什么
爱情是成熟果实
需要你我去收获
8、《怀念爱情》
曾经,温暖而透明的天空变了
曾经,铺满鲜花的大地枯了
曾经,澎湃的蓝色海潮退了
曾经,醇香甜美的酒浆尽了
一蓬蓬秋之血
在心的郊野斑驳
蝉鸣凄切
记忆泛黄
浩荡的风
吹落了柔情似水的目光
一个转身
夏花陨落
如满天里亮闪闪的星星
忽地熄灭
回忆
打开心中绚丽的秋色平原
摇晃着血脉的枝丫
一地疼痛洒落
飒飒作响的叶子啊
再不是离愁
是诀别
9、《因为爱情》
经过两个月的期盼
村庄也迎来了春天
看啊,这一片憧憬
在小河里飘
在田野里闹
在森林里吵
可我们依然能清晰的看到
蔚蓝色的天空下
也飘着一段触手可得的幸福
我想把那些幸福与感动
悄悄地挂在树梢
等暖融融的阳光照射
让雨水与霜露将它磨砺
最终开花
若干年后
如能结果
那便是爱情
壬辰年九月
10、《迷茫的爱情》
几米说:
当你喜欢我的时候,我不喜欢你
当你爱上我的时候,我喜欢上你
当你离开我的时候,我却爱上你
是你走的太快,还是我跟不上你的脚步?
我们错过了诺亚方舟,错过了泰坦尼克号,错过了一切惊险与不惊险,我们还要继续错过
但是,请允许我说这样自私的话
多年后
你若未娶
我若未嫁
那我们能不能在一起?
但是现实中的爱情
很少有童话中的美
女人是需要被呵护的再强的女人也需要得到男人的爱
虾米
对于爱情很迷茫
像个迷路的女孩
不知道去路
生命中出现的那些人
不知道选择哪个
才是属于自己一辈子的幸福
拿着显微镜看世界
只是为了寻找真爱
心里那些潮起潮落的爱意
随着年龄的变化而改变了
不知道是跟着自己的内心走
还是自己的感觉走
我遇见你
是最美丽的意外
就让时间去诠释这一切
诠释虾米的爱情
11、《远走的爱情》
滴答滴答,轻柔流动的细沙
隐形的时光插着翅膀飞离属于你我的世界
带走了属于你我的纯真爱情
滴答滴答,漂浮的心
驻留在过去的时光机里
那么一次,那么一眼
最后一次留恋那属于你我的幸福
曾经那些幸福快乐的画面在我的脑海里跌宕起伏
曾经那些美好幸福的回忆在我的内心里辗转徘徊
曾经那些属于你我的时光在我的生活里渐行渐远
那个属于你我的爱情正在我们的世界里慢慢远走
亲爱的,留下的是我们幸福的回忆
亲爱的,远走的是我们纯真的爱情
12、《秋天的爱情》
在那个秋天
结满果实的季节里
阳光偎依在你的脸庞
你笑着说
那就是我们的爱情
当时我并不明白
春天的花开多美丽
为何我们的爱情
要藏在秋天
那个谢幕的季节里
时间匆匆而逝
直到我们慢慢老去
漫步在那个季节
还在回忆
那句话中韵趣
在那个秋天
漫天黄叶的季节里
雨水亲吻在你的脸庞
你笑着说
那就是我们的爱情
当时我并不明了
春天的暖阳多温馨
为何我们的爱情
要藏在秋天
那个多愁的季节里
时间匆匆而逝
知道我们慢慢老去
漫步在那个季节
还在回忆
那句话中含义
13、《乡村爱情》
那年你走过阡陌浓了一片秋色
留下影子坐在镜子里凝望窗外
那是场淅沥的春雨,雨中荡来小舟
遥远的杨柳岸上少年弯腰系缆
那时,你在墙里,他在墙外
他许下诺言在云雀翅膀上种植葡萄
一曲清幽的萧,藤叶绕满往事
你只想留下他的足迹在月光里
裁一缕相思抹蓝那片广阔
那时,你是彩虹,他是路
N年后,他从暮云中垂钓那份眷恋
小花狗撕咬他的影子,碎了一路
你推着婴儿车对孙子笑语而过
你没有认出他,他没有识别你
这时,你是岁月,他是记忆
14、《木棉花的爱情》
春天,你向我走来
路边的木棉树
正红得似火
在你的目光里
我成了枝头上
一朵木棉花
火红地盛开
夏天要来的时候
你却已经不在月光下的一地残红,是木棉花的叹息
我的爱也走了
只留下花底的那一片尘埃
15、《爱情是毒药》
带着火热的真情
去接触冰冷的石头
看着你淡漠的表情
象掉进了冰窟窿
心已凉透
真心换不来真情
真情不是爱情
真情爱情慢慢会变成亲情
爱情是一杯说不清的酒
爱一个人没错
爱错了人才最痛苦
爱是世间的毒药
每个人却都想着喝
爱情的引力太大
宁可毒死也得喝下
16、《爱如春雨》
倘若我是一滴雨露,一片雪花
那么我会随你一同飘扬飞舞
在无限的高处,去寻找爱的永恒
在漫长的岁月里,不再遭遇更大的虚空
那时,我们将在满园的春色下行走歌唱
无论是清晨黄昏还是夜晚
我们都会彼此相依,携手同行。
17、《时间验证的爱情》
一春雨淋湿了谁的眼睛
一夏风吹动了谁的真情
一秋落叶为谁飘零
一冬清冷谁的心在疼
年轻的心为谁跳动
承诺约定了谁的今生
心放飞在你给我的梦想天空
只求今生别让我醒
睡在你的梦中
只想我的执着能感动你的一生
伴我走过雨走过风
清扫落叶抵御寒冬
怎奈岁月的风沙
掩盖了青春的年华
一颗简单的心变得复杂
从此你没了以前
于是我的人生
寻觅不到从前的你
我被你丢在冷冷的冬季
曾努力的想忘记
却不知道为什么我的世界全是你
就这样坚持着美丽到噩梦的爱情
是不是曾经冲动的年轻
让你没看清你的爱情
而我的全部只是你的曾经
雨在下风在刮
落叶伴雪在飘洒
只是只是
找不到曾经的我和你
18、《时光》
时光,是一首悠扬的诗,甘醇如酒。
我以一瓣诗心,一纸红笺小字,记下春归深处,一盏花茶的思绪,一段飘香的心迹。
我们就这样重逢了么?
在春天的绿意里,在满树的繁花中,在如梦如幻的诗意里。
如是,请允许我,摘一瓣诗心,轻放于每一个春天的晨暮。
19、《眼中的你》
影像中的你
妖化的眉眼连同那润红的唇
象,千年前那个夜晚的狐仙
妩媚,紫色,古典着案头的写意……
呢喃的夜语,我未曾触摸过的浪漫
穿越,层云的浩渺
今生再次相遇,只为看一眼
轻舞的红裙,一次笑颊的泛滥,属于我的也是,属于你的……
岸的那岸
宁静与情动,一片紫色的云
是今天你,给我的礼物吗
你那朵粉色的花已开成,今生我不可
回避的,陷阱
紫粉色的阵营中,心,开始陷落
像此刻的月,陷落在夜的湖中……
夜,我不许它隔开你和我点三两盏萤火的灯,照亮梦的卧室
而你,凝眉,抿唇,脸儿绯红
此时,我只想轻轻的靠近
什么也不说……
20、《今夜无眠》
漆黑的夜,白色的天花板,呆呆的凝视,一团雾水蒙住了双眼,纷乱的思绪就像乱线团,好的坏的,分不清,也拆不开,好想睡去,却越是清醒,发送我的思念,撞上了你黑色的屏,天明,泪停,用笑脸迎接,你可知道,昨夜我无眠……
第四篇:最新现代爱情诗歌
是否我以是你脑海的蒲海英
已飘去,远去
是否曾经的快乐都被遗忘
泪滴滴落地,淹在心头
是否你只是我幻想的虚影
时而影现,时而消逝
是否你的心灵已经沉睡
无人能够呼唤起你的芒光
是否被一切的细绪,打乱神经
一点点的缩回原地
是否那时奔跑的野马
认为还有更好的草地
是否你是高贵的公主
不愿意平凡的度过美好生活
是否你只是出于热情
挽留陪同一段路途
是否我的情感
让你无法感动
是否你是在考验我的耐心
或是另一人
是否你的世界不让人打扰
所以让我走开离去
是否你还不知道我爱上了你
这绝对不可能不可能!
能否让我好好抚摸你的心灵
让她拥有本来的温柔
能否接受我的怀抱
让她无处欲走
是否我们没有在适当的地方相遇
应该给上一生的时间
去爱恋
让你看见,我在爱你
如果我没有选择离开
我们都要重新开始
第五篇:现代爱情散文诗
爱情很美,爱情很甜,爱情的滋味总是让人难以忘怀,倒不如说是心中放不下这段感情。本文的内容是现代爱情散文诗,请慢慢欣赏。
现代爱情散文诗
1追随你,一生一世
不是一句
随意呐喊的口号
而是我爱你的那一分信誓旦旦的承诺:
--“追随你,一生一世”
看似简单明了的几个字
却蕴含了我对你的爱
一心一意
不会轻易的更改
世上没有
永远飘遥的风情
却有你是我牵挂一生的理由
为了能够
找到你远去的背影
我宁愿为你
牺牲我这双痴情的眼睛
在每一个想你的夜
梦里和你
相约着美丽
是你的温情
盈亮了我心里的温暖
是你的爱
点燃了我心里的那一盏心灯
不再害怕
那迷迷茫茫的黑夜
我只愿
紧紧的,追随在你的左右
一直对你
情深意重
追随你的脚步永无止境
就让我做一颗永远忠诚于你的卫星
环绕在你的身边
闪闪发亮,追随你
一生一世
现代爱情散文诗
2我的爱里,全部是你
是你
那几许飘逸的发丝
缠绕着,我的心扉
和你初次邂逅的美丽
让我领略了你那呢喃的爱意
在梦里
把你紧紧的追随
我的爱里
全部是你
无数次的想你
无数次的爱你
就像那滴滴答答的雨滴给了我数不清的回忆
爱你千遍
也不厌倦,爱你万年
也不遗憾
你是我永远的相爱
我想爱你
一生一世
依然,--
数不清你那随风飘扬的长发
却给了我深情的向往
多情的沙滩上
留下了你和我心心相印的痕迹
我还是不懂,你爱我到底有多深
请你做我心里唯一的女人
在我这里辛勤的耕耘
丈量着我对你的爱到底有
多么的绵长
我的爱里
全部是你
你的羞涩盈满了我的回忆
你那旖旎的姿态更是给我以心灵上的激情
你就是我,生活里的点点滴滴
我一往情深的怀念你
情深似海的爱着你
悄悄的,--
了无声息
是你带着远方的痴情
轻轻的,来到了我的身边
我一时竟然
忘记了向你坦白我爱你的心缘
嘭嘭乱跳的心
最终还是在你的眼前展露无疑
给你一个
最完美的爱恋
亲爱的请相信我对你的那一份
痴痴的情怀
我的爱里
全部是你
关于现代爱情散文
现代爱情散文诗
3挽住,你的美丽!
曾经,--
经历过浩瀚的大海
波涛汹涌,直逼
我的心脏
但我却无法忽视你那含情脉脉的凝视
我陶醉在你的美丽里
和你那灼情的目光渐渐的融为一体
我想,--
就此挽住你的美丽
在你那
纯洁的心底种下我爱你的情意
千万不要
拒绝我对你的那一分
深情的呼唤
在你的心灵上有一块圣洁的沙滩
我想,在此
永久的搁浅
欣赏你那独树一帜的美丽
愉悦我的心灵
是你,--
那煽情的眼眸
点燃了我爱你的那一分独一无二的痴情
在无数个寂寞的日子里
你成为我的爱情里
最幸福的旋律
给了我,最美的相思
就让我把手轻轻的放在你的腰际
不管前生
还是来世
我都会挽住你的美丽
无怨无悔
就一辈子
现代爱情散文诗
4终于走出,就像是一出悲剧刚刚悄然谢幕
没有了呼啸的北风
躲在阴暗角落的冰雪
彻底地
融化在炙热的怀抱里
溪流在悄悄地滋润着
憔悴。整整一个严冬的干涸开始复苏
绿色在枝间流动
报春鸟说了很多甜言蜜语
五颜六色的花朵变得羞羞答答
坐在无人的角落里
从早晨开始
一分一秒,数着绿色的符号
甜蜜的想象被时间写成了春心荡漾的诗章
一行
又一行
不同的人读着会有不同的感想
在春天里开始想你
夜的黑色开始在视野里蔓延
厚重的思绪在心头缠绕
但它侵扰不了
这个季节里早已萌芽了的小草
夜的黑给了我黑色的冲动
孤独的心在此时可以放肆成狂吠的犬
许多不敢想不能想的东西
统统被梦酝酿成醉酒
坐下。靠着春的柔柔臂膀
开始
畅饮绿色,让心醉成春夜里
最美最美
难以忘怀的妩媚
现代爱情散文诗
5还记得我们初识的那个夜晚吗?
落雨的天,遮住了星月的眼,让我找寻不到回家的路,记忆里它是那么的飘渺、那么的遥远,我孤自站在狭小的屋檐,无奈地注视着过往的行人,他们的脚步匆匆,没有人牺牲时间停留,披着雨衣撑着伞,逃逸似的离开我的视线,风夹杂着冰凉的雨,侵袭着我的臂弯,雨融进了凄冷的风中,给身心徒添了一袭难耐的寒,身是那么的冷,哆哆嗦嗦地,站着,满眼里是白茫茫却又黑漆漆的一片,这个时候,多想寻到一片晴空,哪怕是点滴的温暖,也能驱走身心的寒,滴答的指针在腕中游动,像滴落的雨滴迸溅在湿漉冰凉的脸上,心,抽搐着的难受,很酸,许是望不到了那一抹温馨,伞花开满了街面,我的头上也撑开了一片晴天,你的微笑在我的眼前出现,雨夜里难得的一张笑靥,缓缓地抬起头,陌生,于瞬间随风飘走,你的伞遮住了暗夜的雨,你的出现隔断了阴雨的侵袭,诉说里,明了你与我曾经相遇,只是那时的我对你根本没有在意,我的心思都在孜孜不倦的学业里,你的眼却始终没有从我的身边远离,就这样,我们相遇,在那个落雨的夜里,聆听着你温馨的话语,感受着你带来的温暖的春意,你的笑容感染了我,我的笑容抹去了伤感的泪滴,云做船,你我的心在蓝天里穿行,风做帆,爱的情缘在天际间浮现,把爱寄托在云朵里,云朵轻柔了你的唇,把情驻留在清风中,清风蓝遍了天的脸,你的情,浸染了天边的霞,霞羞红了脸,你的爱,迷醉了星月的眼,它们躲到了山那边,你用你的深情编织着属于你我的不结情缘,你用你的真爱书写着你我今生的浪漫诗篇,相遇、相识、相知、相恋、长相守,你我前世有缘,今生才能牵手到白头,醉看秋叶飘飘,风吹彩蝶舞绸袖,恋在冬雪晶莹,携手走过春夏冬秋,今生今世我会与你朝朝暮暮相依,今世今生我会与你暮暮朝朝相随,你就是那眺望远方的高山,而我,愿为你化作一江春水围绕在你的身前,遇上你,是我的缘,你我的心早已紧紧相连,尘封了的情因你而重返心田,你的爱,让我陶醉在幸福的港湾,永远、永远。